Abstract (eng)
This thesis explores the processes of transitioning to and negotiating consensual non-monogamies (CNM). To identify and understand the significance of embracing CNM for individuals and their relationships, I conducted a qualitative inquiry into the experiences of four, both queer and cis-heterosexual, Vienna-based couples practicing CNM. The data was gathered through semi-structured interviews and evaluated using the method of focused analysis. Besides seeking to understand the key motivations, dynamics, and effects of opening a relationship, my research also investigates whether modern non-monogamies can be viewed as a socially transformative practice, resistant rather than susceptible to self-commodification in the neoliberal sexual market and beyond. The study highlights the various methods and incentives behind adopting and maintaining CNM, the resources and kinds of labor invested in the practice, and the diversity of meanings associated with it, extending beyond a mere multi-partner lifestyle. Despite holding great potential for profound and even emancipatory changes in the sexual/intimate sphere and beyond, which undoubtedly are of interest for queer and feminist aspirations, my research suggests that the transformative power of CNM cannot extend beyond the intimate lives of the few, as long as the practice itself remains at odds with capitalism and is governed by increasingly individualizing, neoliberal discourses. CNM is revealed as an ambivalent field of both privilege and disadvantage, as well as emancipation and social confinement – a field where, despite its anti-normative premises, new regimes of normativity are called into being.